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Dear Melissa, After dating my boyfriend exclusively for two-and-a-half years I want to decide dossn living together and getting married eventually. He says he is not ready to make a deeper commitment right now and needs more time. We both are divorced for little more than a year. He has a year-old son and year-old daughter which he shares custody with his ex.


So if you could let me know what you are thinking and how you are feeling about getting married I think it could really ease my mind and help me make important decisions for myself. Talk about your own fears and see if it le him to opening up about his.

Start a cult? The important part is that you will get over the loss and move forward to find what you want and what you deserve. If you are certain of why you are with them, you're probably pouring a lot of love into someone who doesn't even know why they want it in the first place. Those are my two criteria next to knowing that your visions are aligned to each other.

I've done it too. There can be many reasons for this, but they are probably about HIM, not you.

You know? That can fuel thoughts of not good enough.

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Even if their ambiguity is not about you, it does have an effect on you. What do you both know about one another? Ambiguity is not a great foundation for a trusting relationship. Be sure to ask and then give him the space to answer, without filling the silence with your own thoughts until he responds. Know your own limits and protect them, and yourself. They Send Mixed als When someone doesn't know what they want out of a relationship but doesn't want to lose your love, they will feed you enough breadcrumbs to keep you around.

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Finite waiting time. The good news is, from what you told me, it seems like he is being forthright about how he feels and where he is at. She eventually becomes frustrated and ends things. Save your sanity and go for a guy who has ugy better head on his shoulders. Their divorce is amicable and his ex is friendly with me.

He has a year-old son and year-old daughter which he shares custody with his ex. Option 1: Tell me more… If you feel a genuine connection with him, give him the space to further explain his feelings.

What to do when he says he doesn’t know what he wants

Own your emotions and be vulnerable. But they also don't know what they want from you. Set a time limit for yourself, and stick to it.

We can cope with this for a while, but eventually it takes a toll. Ask him if he feels watns same way as you do. The power dynamic is all kinds of messed up.

But he still might fear commitment or be unsure about whether he wants to commit. Here is a strategy, derived from Dialectical Behavioral Therapy DBT deed to help people set boundaries, ask for what they want or need, or say no.

I have expressed that I want to get married to you, and you have not given me an answer. Our lives are very much connected.

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We love each other very much and the relationship is great in every way. If you find yourself caught in this dynamic with a man, it does not necessarily mean the relationship is doomed, but something needs to change in order to have any chance of moving forward. In this case it would be dosen along the lines of: I am asking you to make a decision, or give me a whay for making a decision, about whether you want to get married to me.

Is it worth waiting things out with him and for how long? Or, are my expectations too high at this point and am I pushing him too much?

In every relationship there are times when one person feels more strongly or feels more sure about the relationship or their life than the other. How long have you known each other?

There is no external authority on this. Set a timeframe in which we need to decide? This push-pull dynamic probably makes your time together hotter, but it also probably makes you anxious and uncertain.

The clearer he is about what he wants, the clearer his relationship decisions will be. You immediately connect with an awesome coach on text or over the phone in minutes.

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Just … :. I hope this has helped huy understand men a little bit better, and helped you feel more prepared. I feel undervalued and question your commitment to me when you are reticent on a subject you know is meaningful to me.

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